I
tell you what! When my bestie Lauren phoned me from the UK to say that she was
getting married, I squealed with delight.
Two reasons for my delight No.#1 Lauren is
my BFF/ my voice of reason at times and perhaps my sister soul mate for the
last 20yrs and No.#2 Lauren and her Mr have been together for 7 years and they
are just so right for each other.
Lauren
was my MOH naturally I wouldn’t get married without her. Lauren was my life
saver. Basically organised my entire wedding for me. I got stuck in detail
whereas Lauren always had the bigger picture in mind which meant things got
done :) but
anywho...
I
had to arrange the Bridal Shower for Lauren that would be a prologue to the
Wedding.
Something
sophisticated and fun and easy on the pocket. We love a challenge to stick it
to the man (or wedding industry in this case) that it doesn’t have to cost an
arm and a leg to make something special.
Here
are my tips for making a successful bridal shower:
#1 Create a vision for what you want, ask the bride to be what she wants and
doesn’t want.
#2
Host it at a restaurant – they already have enough chairs/tables and glassware
& kitchen etc
#3 Be creative – design the invites and wish list on Microsoft Publisher (if you don’t
have fancy design program)
#4 Send invites - at least 3 weeks before the date and confirm attendance
at least a week before so you may confirm with the restaurant and you can
arrange
#5
Keep it simple – have 3 options available when it comes to snacks and drinks.
And this also applies to the flowers. I simply mixed pale pink roses bought
from PnP with aloes taken from the garden and arranged them in glass wear and
little vintage trophies.
#6
Keep it light and fun – have at least 2 bridal shower games. Bridal Pictionary
& Bridal Bingo are great fun.
#7
Bring in your own dessert – we had ordered simple vanilla and chocolate
cupcakes from a local baker with white icing dusted with “fairy dust” they are
a perfect portion and enough for people to satisfy any sweet craving. Everyone loved them and I didn’t have to
slave away baking them.
#8
Accept Help – family and friends want what you want, a successful shower :)
#9
Placement – let those that are supporting you in on what is expected for the
bridal shower etc. When the food is to be served etc.
#10
Enjoy the evening with your Bride-to-be and those that support and love her.